HOW TO MAKE A GOOD MARRIAGE

HOW TO MAKE A GOOD MARRIAGE
By Sauda Adam Buyinza

Women today have turned to be a liability in most families. In this message, I fully advise and give clear cutting guidelines to the fellow women. Women must be faithful and respect our husbands. They should avoid things, which can make our husbands annoyed. A family cannot be happy when a husband is angry of you. So we must make sure that we do things which can make them happy of us because husbands in most cases are good to their wives and families in general. If we want our homes to be fine and happy, then we must avoid doing things without informing or seeking permission from the husbands. We are under their control, they got us from our beloved parents, sisters, brothers and friends and we are with them full time, so they are our gateway to happiness, they are our path to success, our defenders in all, etc. Therefore, we must make sure that everything that we do, we first inform or seek permission from them because even God wanted it to be like that, he wanted women to be under men. Being under men or husbands does not mean, women being oppressed or mishandled by men. In most cases women have caused confusion and divorce in many families.

So I advise fellow wives to love and respect their hunsbands. It is our duty to make sure that our hunsbands are happy. If we want to be loved by them, we must love them fully, we must make sure that we give them extra love and care and we must also make sure that we do not cheat on them. It’s an evil act to cheat. Sex outside marriage is punishable both on the earth and by God. The holy Quran teaches more on sex outside marriage and the bible is totally against this.

We must make sure also that we welcome our hunsbands from wherever. This only can make them happy and their love towards us will improve.

In conclusion, I ask you women around the world to take my message as vital in managing your families and please men or hunsbands, since we are committed to love, respect and care for you, we would like you also to do the same to us and we shall then be able to live in harmony.

May the Almighty Allah protect you from the evils and devils of this world.

Sauda Adam Buyinza is a Public Monitor at Public Opinions